Stages of Alcoholism
Alcoholism is a problem which is progressive. The progression of the
problem leads to
much pain and loss without interruption of the progression. Many people
stop for a while but return to abuse. The way to "reality test"
the success of the person's recovery is to watch the actions of the
person. This does not mean to judge the person but to follow
the success objectively. As you read on , you will realize that the
abuser is not
intentionally causing harm to self and others but is compelled to do
so. This is not
a choice he or she made because they were bad or corrupt or immoral
or weak willed.
It is largely due to genetic factors. It is my belief that the person
is responsible for the behavior but not to blame. Consequences should
be given and consistently enforced in order for learning and change
to take place.